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There will be times that you’ll have to do early quit time not only at work but also in after work socials. Reasons may vary, from having to go to another function, an emergency at home, or worse, escaping a situation gone awry.

So, how do you make a graceful exits? The best thing to do is leave. Give an excuse they won’t remember it anyway. What’s important is that you leave and never put yourself in a compromising situation. Say thank you to everyone for the wonderful night. Be polite, no matter how out of control things have become.

After work gimik is fun when our colleagues have already become our friends. We can relax and just be ourselves. But what if we’re new to the company, or if the big boss suddenly wants to tag along? The night out then becomes another exercise in professionalism, and in as much as you’re allowed to have fun, you also have to be aware of the messages you will be sending to your colleagues, clients, or superiors. Here are some guidelines;

Always show up – it’s a first step. Make an effort to get involved in casual conversation. This indicates that you have an interest in your colleagues and have something in common with them.

Stay away from controversial topics these includes politics, religion, personal money matters, and sex related topics. Be friendly and open but try not to cross the line between openness and personal space.

Be careful about giving gifts, giving gifts is not expected, unless there really is an occasion (a birthday perhaps) and you are close to the celebrant. Otherwise, it may be misinterpreted as a bribe.

Be pleasant and friendly Smile say good evening to each person that you meet, no matter what kind of position she holds in your company.

Pay for your own food it’s only decent that you pay for what you’ve consumed.

Keep in mind the nature of the gathering this is the most especially true for spur of the moment types after work gatherings

Changing your look to be noticed at work need not be an expensive endeavor. We sometimes need a change – a revamp in our looks. You already have what it takes, you just need a little help in maximizing your assets.

Make yourself more visible. Get noticed by your boss, your clients, and by the people in your industry. Become a regular customer at the restaurant where you have your business lunches. Develop your network of contacts by attending industry events. Get your name on the mailing list of organizers so you can be invited to these events. Develop a referral system so you can refer people or have them drop your name at these organizations or events. You can also involve yourself in local charities and community activities so you can meet prospective contacts and at the same time make yourself an asset.

Spice up your wardrobe. Two outfits are all you need to get noticed. One should be in a dark mutual color. A black dress can take you anywhere. Pick a classic tailored that can take you from a luncheon meeting to cocktail party with style, just dress it up or down with accessories.

The other must have in your wardrobe would be in colorful and fun dress for casual lunches and weekend events.

And don’t forget to pull your outfit together with the right posture that signals confidence and attitude: stand up straight, roll your shoulders back, stick your chest out a little bit and tuck your hips under.